Many times after my wife and I have tucked all of our kids into bed at night, my 3-year-old Katie has shouted out from her room, “Good night mommy,” to which I respond in a feminine voice (trying to mimic my wife), “Good night Katie.” Katie’s response is always the same: “Daddy, you’re my daddy. You can’t be my daddy and my mommy. You can only be my daddy.”
I laugh because she’s right…I can’t be both. Ironically, however, mixing up biblical roles is a common weakness in marriages. And often it starts when the husband fails to step up as the spiritual leader of his home (Ephesians 5:23). Men often allow things like work or sports to take precedence in their lives, leaving their wives to initiate things like church attendance, church involvement, family devotions, family prayer time, discipline of children, etc. This isn’t how God designed our roles. Continue Reading →