Last night, I was blessed to witness the wedding of a very young couple. As I watched the ceremony, I watched them transition from the security of their childhood homes into a very big world together. I kept thinking of how much they have yet to learn about each other… though the bride seemed to learn a few more of the groom’s secrets after an embarrassing toast (or should I say roast) by his best man. My guess is that like many couples, both bride and groom were diligent to put the best foot forward during the dating period.
After 15 years of marriage, my wife knows me better than anyone else on the planet… and, shockingly, her love for me does not waver. Yes, I said shockingly, because we’re beyond only seeing each other’s “best foot.” She’s been exposed to my weaknesses, my fears, my insecurities, my failures and, scariest of all, my appearance in the morning. It’s because of this that I have a greater appreciation for why marriage is referred to as the “grace of life” (1 Peter 1:7.) There are many times that I don’t deserve her love. Continue Reading →