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February 9, 2012
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Coincidence… I Think Not!

My daughter needed me. It was the middle of the first quarter of the Super Bowl; our home was full of family, friends and people that I didn’t know yet, but wanted to get to know… but my daughter needed me. She came downstairs from her nap an emotional mess. She was fighting over toys and crying over the word “no.” She didn’t even respond to discipline. We made eye contact across the room, and I thought, “what am I doing?”

In the midst of all these people, she needed her mom. I scooped her into my arms and decided to take her for a bike ride. I left my home. I left all the guests. I didn’t finish putting out the food. I just needed her to know that she is more important than all these things.

As I’m writing this, I’m sitting in a coffee shop with tears in my eyes. Continue Reading →

February 7, 2012
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Reflections: Remembering My Illness

Last time you went through a bad cold or a stomach bug, did you forget you were sick in the midst of blowing your nose or vomiting? Probably not. Most of us can’t imagine forgetting we are sick when we are battling an illness.

But it can happen. I was recently talking to a friend whose daughter has been sick for more than a month. She had to convince her daughter to stay home from school recently, and she said, “My daughter has been sick for so long that she forgot how sick she is.”

Sin can be like that. Continue Reading →

February 6, 2012
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RMG Life: Leadership

Last time I wrote about the primary reason RMGs are so important: discipleship. And yet, as I mentioned then, there are so many other great things that go along with RMGs, among them being the fellowship, worship, teaching, and prayer.

However, one of things that I overlooked was the RMG leadership. One of the true joys my wife and I have had over the past few months has been working with like-minded men and their wives in building our RMG. We share a desire to serve, a commitment to truth, and a longing for growth in our Body.

Don’t get me wrong. We are still plenty human, me more than anyone else. Continue Reading →

February 4, 2012
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A Great Spring Conference on Biblical Sexuality

Sex: From Idol to Blessing

If you’re looking for biblical teaching on sexual intimacy in marriage, or if you’re looking for help in fighting against the idolatry of sex in your own life, then this should be a great conference.  Jim Newheiser comes up each year to help us train men to counsel; he is wise and biblical.  This should be a great one-day conference!  Here’s more info from their website: Continue Reading →

February 1, 2012
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Real Marriage – Thoughts on the Book & Conference

DISCLAIMER #1
This is written for those at FBC.  I write out of pastoral concern as I see and hear discussion of the upcoming ‘Real Marriage’ conferences that are happening nearby.

DISCLAIMER #2
This is long; I don’t like long.  Forgive me, but it seems necessary in this case.

Why I’m Writing This

If you know me, you know that I take Php 1:15-18 seriously.  I strive to rejoice whenever the gospel is preached.  If I have concerns about motives or secondary messages, I can still rejoice that they preach the gospel.  I want to be defined by what I’m for, rather than what I’m against.  I want FBC to be known for truth and grace, rather than identified by what we oppose.

With that frame of mind, I agonized for a time regarding whether to write about ‘Real Marriage.’  In the past, I have heard Mark Driscoll be a strong advocate for the biblical gospel and not back down from core truths about Christ, the atonement and a salvation that radically transforms your life.  Additionally, he is a strong complementarian – he passionately, provokingly argues for men and women to fulfill and live out their biblical roles.  Even though many amazingly solid, biblical, practical, helpful marriage books have been published, Driscoll often speaks in such a way that challenges how you think about life and truth.  He can make a Christian consider something ‘old’ in a completely new way.  I don’t always agree with what he says, but I appreciate his passion for Christ to be manifest in men and women.

Though I’m always reading books, I rarely offer a public review of a book.  I would not publicly write about Real Marriage if I were not seeing on Facebook and hearing on Sundays about people who are planning to attend the conference from which this book is based.  So I am compelled to speak out of pastoral concern for those whom I love.
Caterpillar on Salad

What I Think About the Book

The book has some real strengths.  Its good on roles.  Its good on friendship.  Its good on abuse and the dangers of pornography.  Its pretty good on conflict resolution.  Mark and Grace are transparent in a helpful but not dramatic way.  But, as Doug Wilson has said, the issues that bring concern are “like finding a caterpillar in your salad.  The fact that the overwhelming majority of the salad is still perfectly fine does not serve to allay your concerns. You still have words with the waiter.” Continue Reading →